Sexual Misconceptions Part 1

I hope you enjoy my Top Ten Lists, and take them for what they are worth”¦mainly entertainment. But like the old saying goes, sometimes there is nothing funnier than the truth.

I am often asked how I came up with the idea for telling both sides of the same erotic story. I think it really ties in with the lists I wrote out. The reality is that when it comes to having sex, most of the time I have no idea what I do right and what I do wrong in the “preliminaries” to end up there. Actually, I shouldn’t say no idea, but I certainly have come to terms with the fact that most of the time I have no idea what women are thinking. So to rectify this, I started asking questions.

When I would write a story, and then “translate it” into the women’s point of view, I would show it to the woman who was involved in that encounter. I had the luxury of having good relationships with these women and was able to gain a lot of insight into the female mind. I did things “right” more often than I thought, and also gave myself credit where I was way off base, too. Yes, ladies”¦go ahead and laugh. But I learned a lot about the process as a whole. I used to think getting someone there was always a little like a hostage negotiation, but I have learned that sex is something women want just as much.

Now I can freely jump back and forth between perspectives, and even write stories in the women’s point of view first. I sit around and laugh when listening to my male friends reciting stories from the bars on Friday night; things they said or did that I just laugh at knowing it didn’t have the affect they were hoping for. It is highly entertaining. And I can also sit with a group of women and hold my own in your conversations about the same thing. I am eerily in touch with my feminine side, and toe the line on Metrosexual at times a little more than I am comfortable with

So what this really means is that it is still amazing to me that men and women get together at all; the agendas are so different, and the criteria vastly different. Thank God for alcohol. Hope you enjoy my book, and the unique perspective I try to bring by showing both sides of the stories. Half of them are real and half are made up”¦can you tell which is which???

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Top Ten List of what men think women think about during sex

1. Am I sexy?
2. Do I look okay???
3. Am I doing it right?
4. Does he really like me?
5. Will he call me again?
6. Focus so I can finish.
7. Ugh I wish it was bigger
8. Is he going to stay afterwards?
9. Am I gonna regret this???
10. Love me love me love me marry me have kids, I wonder how many and what their names should be”¦”¦

Top ten list of what women really think about during sex.

1. Relax!!! BREATHE BREATHE
2. Focus, focus, focus”¦.
3. Patrick Swayze in Dirty Dancing.
4. Brad Pitt in”¦ well anything.
5. Gerard Butler , 300 nuff said.
6. Oh God, I am so close!
7. A little farther left! A little farther left!!!
8. I really need to touch up this ceiling paint”¦..
9. Is he done already???
10. Why isn’t he done yet????/

MORE TO COME AT LUNCHTIME!!!!!