I think of myself as an attractive person. I’m not saying I have any grand delusions, just “attractive”. I may not be one of the beautiful people of the world, but my features (except my nose) are fairly regular and with a little makeup my skin is still pretty smooth for a 40-year-old. My hair tends to be shiny, and with a little help can look decent.
You know, attractive. You might not turn around to watch me walk away, but you wouldn’t turn away when you see me coming, either.
So why is it that some days no matter what I do with makeup and hair dryer I look like death warmed over in an ugly pot? And other days I barely run the brush through my hair and I’m satisfied with the way I look. Not thrilled, necessarily, but satisfied.
And why am I asking you this? Well, Bonnie asked me to introduce myself in my first post. So I took a good long look in the mirror and started thinking: Do I always look like this?
I’m a mother of three, the PTO president of my son’s elementary school, wife to a wonderfully supportive husband, and a writer. Do I look like any of those?
Well, the gray hairs give away the three kids””and the PTO presidency, probably. Wife? Yeah. I look pretty happy, so you could probably guess about the great husband.
Writer?
No idea. Writers come in varying degrees of attractiveness and some of the best writers might even be classified as homely. We’re not known for our looks like actors and even musicians are these days. Writers hide behind the screen of their work. You might find a picture of us on the covers of our books””or you might not.
I reckon””I’m from the South, so that’s proper English””I reckon I look the same no matter what part of my life I’m living. Sometimes maybe I look a little better than others. Sometimes I’m sure I look a lot worse. But for the most part, this is me that I see in the mirror.
Michelle Garren Flye: mother of Josh, Ben and Jess; wife of Chris; author of SECRETS OF THE LOTUS published in ebook form by Lyrical Press in July 2010.
Nice to meet you.
About SECRETS OF THE LOTUS:
What would you trade for the story of a lifetime””a lifetime of love?
Society reporter Josie Stewart is all too familiar with billionaire Dan Mason, who recently took over the reins of his ailing father’s business. He has no intention of allowing anything, even his own conscience, to get in his way.
When Josie accidentally uncovers one of the family secrets, she glimpses a side of Dan that most people never get to see. Drawn to him, she puts her own career and reputation in jeopardy to keep his secrets. But some of those secrets are darker than she knew. Neither Dan nor Josie expects the danger lurking in their future””or the passion.
For more information, visit http://michellegflye.wordpress.com.
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Jill Thomas
14 years agoHi, Michelle! Stopping by from Facebook to wish you well today! And as far as what you look like? You look happy. Happy with your family and happy in your writing…what more is there??
Natalie
14 years agoHi Michelle,
I hope this is where I am suppose to comment regarding your book. Where can I purchase the book? Is it in a print form? Sorry I know nothing about “ebook”. 🙂
Knat
Jewel Garren
14 years agoBefore I met you, I had heard that you wanted to be a writer, and had written some articles. Now, I know you are a writer and I am happy for you that you have (and are) carrying out your dream. You have beautiful children and having a supportive husband is wonderful. I always enjoy reading your cmments. Keep on keepin’ on!
Admirer in BFT
14 years agoI think you are definitely beautiful, inside and out!
mgflye
14 years ago AUTHORJill, you’re absolutely right! I am a very happy person. Knat, sorry, it’s not out in print form (yet), but can be downloaded and read right on your computer from lyricalpress.com. Jewel, thank you! Admirer, thanks! I do my best. 😉
Jenn
14 years agoHad to stop by to see what my very talented friend was up to. Now you have me wondering if I look like what/who I am. Even coming up with the “what/who am I” is a bit challenging! I’ll check back in today to see what else you are posting!
mgflye
14 years ago AUTHORThanks, Jenn! It’s good to hear from you!
amelia
14 years agoWELL…….. I think your a beautiful person and a wonderful friend. Wonderful doesn’t even capture the true you though. For me……… the best part of my day is either knowing that I will see you even if that’s with the company of two naughty girls or just chat for a few moments. Your common sense and loyalty just ground me and make my day just flow more……………
so like my morning cup of coffee/tea a wee bit of you just keeps me breathing………..easier now…………….to me at least I have,and will always think you are beautiful from the inside and outside………….